Get Calm Couples University For FREE ($697 value)
with your purchase of Difficult Discussions.

(Instant Download/MP3 ONLY)

“This is the most practical and helpful marriage program we’ve ever tried. My husband likes it because we can work on it from home. Thank you for this alternative. We’re actually having real, honest conversations for the first time in years.”
~ Diana and Paul H., Hartford, CT

3 HARD TRUTHS
(1) Parents will spend any amount to help their kids, but rarely invest in their marriage.
So I figured a way around that by making this Calm Couples Program (reg. $697) FREE this week. So there!

(2) Love and newness will carry your marriage for a few years, but then you get stuck and the resentments kick in. Your marriage isn’t over–this just means it’s time to finally learn new relationship skills to create a mature marriage with mutual respect. You don’t need love–you need new skills. And those you CAN learn.

(3) Almost every parent obsesses over academics, but happiness and success in life is determined by your relationship IQ. Teach your kids how to disagree respectfully. Have tough talks without escalating. THIS will change your child’s life more than a perfect SAT score.

So this week you can get Calm Couples Marriage Mentoring for FREE when you purchase the NEW Difficult Discussions program.

NEW! Difficult Discussions: 25 Ways Parents & Kids Can Turn Conflict into Cooperation.

Kirk and Casey give you a script with actual words to:

  • Turn conflict into productive conversations about tough topics.
  • Stop power struggles and build a closer relationship.
  • Get your kids to own their part in every situation.
  • Build mutual trust and cooperation. Rebuild a broken relationship.
  • Casey teaches kids how to disagree respectfully without being rude.
  • Kirk teaches parents how to problem solve without escalating situations or denigrating kids.
  • Turn even the most irritating traits into advantages.


See below for all the details on what is included.

 

 


 Calm Couples University MP3 & PDF Instant Download Mentoring Program

What if through some simple steps, we could show you how to:
– Connect emotionally with your spouse in even a few minutes a day?
– Have meaningful conversations each day, without the resentment and tension?
– Be assertive about your needs in ways your spouse will respect?
– Have really difficult conversations without withdrawing or yelling?
– Get the feelings back even though they have been dormant for years?

You’re a capable, intelligent person. But you don’t have the skills necessary to have a mature, grown-up relationship. I invite you to become a complete, whole, healthy adult with new relationship skills. Even if your spouse doesn’t participate, you have the opportunity to become a new person who knows how to be assertive, understand other people’s emotions without changing them or dismissing, stop your controlling behavior, and have difficult discussions without withdrawing, manipulating or yelling.

You have an opportunity to change right in front of your kids, whether they are 4, 9, 14 or 22. You have an opportunity to model for them how to have a mature relationship and stick with love even when it’s hard.

Get on the same page. If you won’t go to counseling, go through our marriage program from your home, anonymously, with your spouse or alone. It’s in depth, it works and it’s much cheaper than counseling or divorce.

Here is what this program includes:

 (1) Three hours of honest insight and strategies that work in the real world. We have walked this hard road. We deal with the ugliness and messiness of everyday life.

(2) Two PDF workbooks so that you can copy and paste sections, share with your spouse, and have the actual conversations, words and action steps in writing. Use this as a conversation starter and journal.

(3) The Marriage Challenge. We walk you through 40 different action steps. Each step is specific, concrete and very clear. You actually PRACTICE new skills in the context of your busy life and daily conflict.

(4) PERSONAL MENTORING WITH KIRKYou can ask Kirk any questions that you want, confidentially. You will receive a prompt, thoughtful, specific reply. If your spouse refuses to interact, address his addictions or stop abusive behavior, you will have an understanding ear and concrete actions to take.

Difficult Discussions: 25 Ways Parents & Kids Can Turn Conflict into Cooperation (Instant Download: 2 Hours + Workbook/Discussion Guide).

Kirk and Casey speak directly to parents AND kids, providing a script with the actual words to:

  • Turn conflict into productive conversations about tough topics.
  • Stop power struggles and build a closer relationship.
  • Get your kids to own their part in every situation.
  • Build mutual trust and cooperation. Rebuild a broken relationship.
  • Casey teaches kids how to disagree respectfully without being rude.
  • Kirk teaches parents how to problem solve without escalating situations or denigrating kids.
  • Turn even the most irritating traits into advantages.


You will learn how to turn the most common and difficult disagreements into opportunities to actually be closer…instead of issues driving you apart.

Bonus: Features a Workbook and Cheat Sheet with the actual conversations. You can even copy, paste and email them to your parents or kids.

 

“I realized that my parents couldn’t trust me because I always blamed someone else. When I use the words Casey teaches and own my part, my parent are much more willing to listen to me. It’s pretty cool.”
~ Caleb M., Age 13

 

What you HEAR is NOT what your kids/parents are actually SAYING. So listen to this three minute clip to learn what your kids/parents are REALLY saying. It’s eye-opening.


So many situations escalate that simply don’t have to. How do you disagree without ruining your relationship?
How can you actually build trust while disagreeing? Listen to these two tracks and learn: