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No one has told you exactly what to do and say to (re)build your relationship, motivate, and get your strong-willed child to be successful. Consequences don’t work. Traditional therapy doesn’t work. And if you don’t change your current path, you will kill your relationship with this child. So Kirk created a blunt, no-nonsense instruction manual to teach you exactly what to do, step-by-step to help you create what you desperately want:

A happy, confident, motivated kid you enjoy and connect with again (or perhaps for the first time) before it’s too late–whether you have a toddler, teenager, or any age in between.

This is the instruction manual you have been waiting for.
Begin walking down a new path with hope and a concrete To-Do list. Today.


You have a child who chooses the more difficult path instead of simply listening to you. Everything is a power struggle.

Your strong-willed child refuses to follow directions, gets upset when things don’t go his way, argues like an attorney, hits or berates siblings, refuses to do what you ask, fights you over homework, is a picky eater, has nasty meltdowns, reacts in a physically aggressive way.

You have an older child who isn’t motivated, won’t apply himself, is consumed with screens (phone, fortnite,video games), and talks back to you. He or she has become defiant. Relationships between siblings and spouses are strained.

WHY THIS PROGRAM? Want the No B.S. truth?

If you do not radically change the way you view your child, change your expectations, and change how you relate to him,
you will destroy your relationship and live with constant stress, tension and power struggles. You don’t want that.

This is the culmination of 20 years of working with hundreds of thousands of parents and strong-willed kids all over the world. Kirk knows what works and what doesn’t. He’s 53 now and has the confidence to flat out tell you what will and will not work. And what the consequences will be.

Because this is about literally saving your relationship with the child you brought into this world or adopted. Parents of toddlers and younger kids have the supreme opportunity to not make the mistakes the rest of us have. Parents of tweens and teens, it’s not too late. But you must make these changes now. You are investing in Kirk’s 20 years of experience in order to change your relationships.

Kirk gets your kids like no one else. Parents have repeatedly asked him for two specific items:

(1) We want an INSTRUCTION MANUAL. We don’t know how to connect with and motivate this child. Tell us exactly what TO DO and NOT DO. Tell us bluntly what we’re doing wrong and how we can fix it. Empty your brain and tell us what you REALLY know and think after 20 years of experience with the most strong-willed kids.

(2) We want a MENTOR and WRITTEN CHEAT SHEET. Will you keep teaching us as you get new insights? And will you write your ideas down, in a concise way, so we can keep the instruction manual as a cheat sheet in our purse…or better yet, written right on our phones so we can pull up your ideas and instructions right in the moment? So here it is. 20 years in the making:

Regularly $600, Now $295.

Kirk will tell you exactly what to do and say to motivate your kids and (re)build a closer, more trusting relationship with your kids. He will tell you bluntly (and with humor and passion as always) what to do about lack of motivation, physical aggression, refusal to listen, screens, homework, school, chores, siblings, defiance, meltdowns, and everything you struggle with. This is the instruction manual you have been waiting for.

(1) You receive a condensed, straight-to-the-point audio guide (3 hours) with 25 specific action steps that you can listen to right on your phone. No need to download it. Just link to the private website and listen anytime, anywhere right from your phone, tablet, or computer. Share it with your spouse, parents, teachers, caregivers, and even your strong-willed child. They will find it empowering. Listen repeatedly and work through the 25 specific action steps.

* This is new insight and most of the content Kirk has never revealed publicly before. It is based on answering the toughest questions from parents via phone consultations and Parent BootCamps. When the normal path doesn’t work, what do you do?

* It will be most beneficial if you listen to this program in conjunction with the CDs such as Straight Talk for Kids, 30 Days to Calm, ADHD University, Straight Talk for Moms, Dads, Stop Power Struggles with the Strong-Willed Child and more. Want a special bundle and price for the CDs & No. B.S. Instruction Manual? Email and he’ll help customize a package for you.

(2) You receive, for the first time ever, a written Instruction Manual containing Kirk’s detailed insights and notes so you can absorb all these insights and strategies by listening AND reading them. This includes a full transcript of Kirk’s ideas and insights plus a condensed PDF Workbook so you can work through the steps one by one.

(3) You receive a written, concise, 1-page “Cheat Sheet”
that you can keep printed in your purse, posted on your refrigerator, and hopefully taped to your brain. You can have the list of action steps sent right to your phone so you can pull up the instructions anytime, right in the heat of the moment, via email, in Notes, etc.

(4) Kirk will continue to provide ongoing support and mentoring. As he gets new ideas and strategies to save and rebuild your relationship with your child, Kirk will share these with you via recorded messages and written notes automatically sent to you throughout the year. Once you register, we will stay with you and help you.

(5) Kirk has included 30 Case Studies (2 hours of additional recorded content) so that you can see exactly how Kirk applies all of these principles to tough situations and kids just like yours. This is extremely beneficial and insightful.


“No one has ever understood our son like Kirk. The blunt advice he gave us helped us change the entire course of our family. We are actually enjoying our teenager for the first time! It’s the best investment we have ever made.”
~ Stephen and Rebecca Camden, Long Island

“We have spent countless hours worrying, seeing various therapists and exploring expensive testing, but Kirk was able to cut through the clutter, give us clarity, and help us finally change our daily family life. This is a game-changer.”
~ Kelly and Rob K., Alexandria, VA


BONUS #1: GET 50% OFF. This week, the program will be reduced from $600 to $300. It’s a fraction of what most people have paid for testing, therapy, Brain Balance and other programs.

BONUS #2: GET REAL LIFE CASE STUDIES FREE. Kirk walks you through over 30 different common situations from real people like you, answering the toughest questions. How do you get a child to care about school? How do you motivate a child who doesn’t do anything she doesn’t want to do? How do you get kids to push through when things are hard? How do you calm a child who gets physical when upset? You’ll learn dozens of practical strategies and see how Kirk views these situations. This is priceless insight.

BONUS #3: GET NEW UPDATES FREE. As Kirk continues to gain new insights and help more people, he will share his wisdom and new strategies with you. Automatically. You’ll receive new recordings and written materials over the course of the next year absolutely free.

Need help financially or a payment plan? Have additional questions?
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Kirk will address all of the following issues and more:
* What are the 7 words that will immediately begin to rebuild trust?
* The one secret to motivate a child who has shut down or resisted everything you have tried.
* How do you keep kids from being resentful and fighting when one child pushes buttons or consumes the family’s energy?
* How do you respond when kids outright refuse to do what you ask, without escalating?
* How, of how, can you stop projecting your fears of the future onto your child, which precipitates so many issues?
* Exactly how to get your kids to care about the right things, customized for your specific child and his specific interests (weird as they may be!).
* How do you balance the requirements of school without crushing your child’s spirit?
* Learn a killer question to ask when kids struggle with focus or impulse control.
* Time management doesn’t work for your kids. Come learn a crucial difference that will help your child to be more productive and successful throughout his life.
* How do you give your kids space to be responsible when they’ve never shown the ability to actually be responsible?
* Why saving face is so important for your kids. Did you know most of your kids suffer from a great deal of hidden shame? Deal with that and you change things quickly.
* How much space do you give your child to fail before jumping in?
* How do you break the over reliance on screens without causing WWIII?
* How can you and your spouse (or grandparents) get on the same page?